Don't wna any ties strained.

kinda upset, kinda affected.

Is it sort of a dilemma thing?

Both matters much. 

With this thing going on in the family, our family r/s are definitely gna be strained. 

Totally can't bear the thought of that. 

Ah Mah had left us for 6 months and this was to happen..

Is there any way we can solve this problem?

We’re a family. We’ve to work things out to pull this family tgt. if not this family's gna end up, torn. 

All the effort devoted by Ah Mah, the previous matriarch of our family gna be wasted. 

I bet this wouldn’t be what she wanted.

I wish I can do smth constructive to salvage this situation.. so badly.